I am no relationship guru but I’d like to think with a couple ex boyfriends under my wing and currently in a very happy relationship, I may know a thing or two about some of the Do's and most of the Don’ts.
To begin, after a guy cheats on you, do not let him back in your life. If he says lets be friends, let’s get serious... there will be no friendship involved. It’s called manipulation. The second they weasel their way back in your life, the mind games begin all over again. Because I attended an all girls high school, I have always heard girls talking about situations much like this and I am sure many people have gone through a bad boyfriend/girlfriend or two… or three. More often than not I hear about these situations and I basically get a daily play by play. By all means, I have no problem with listening and giving advice because we've all been in this situation.
Soooo…by every day I mean, same shit, different day. That’s where it becomes tricky because I will continuously explain to girls the real situation going on here because I see their "relationships" as an outside perspective. This advice of which I so thoughtfully lend goes in one ear and shoots directly out the other.
Another cute scenario usually pulled is when they have moved on from a high school girlfriend to a college girlfriend and they cheat on the current with the ex. There is a clue right there that they do not give a damn about their girlfriend nor about you. They drag us on as long as they can to see what can come out of it, and then complain to us when we want something more or we are not the only one in their life.
As a female, I am obviously pinpointing males on this situation. Number one, I’ve been in both these situations and it was with the same guy so I basically hit the jackpot (sarcasm) and number two since I have gone through this I truly feel for girls stuck in this situation. BUT as a girl, I know how a girl thinks and I'll be the first to admit, WE ARE CRAZY. Here's the catch. You boys make us crazy, when, and only when, you play that little game with our minds.
Daily lesson to take away from this… Boys: Don’t fuck our minds :) Girls: Don’t fall for their games
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